My Wife’s Male Friend Comes Over a Lot to Work with Her from Home, So I Installed Hidden Cameras in Our House

My wife recently started working from home with her high school ex, collaborating on projects. Initially, I trusted her. However, one day I came home early and saw them watching TV, with her head resting on his lap. Suspicious, I secretly installed cameras in the living room and home office to uncover the truth.

The first day, nothing unusual happened. They worked on their laptops, discussing work. I felt guilty for doubting her. But on the second day, things changed. After working, they moved to the living room, sitting too close. Her ex whispered in her ear, she giggled, and they kissed. I felt betrayed and heartbroken.
The next morning, I confronted her without mentioning the cameras. She denied everything, fueling my anger. I revealed the cameras and what I saw. She tried to explain, but her excuses fell flat. I left the house, needing time to think. She bombarded me with apologies, claiming it was a mistake and that she loved me.

We decided to separate temporarily and seek counseling. Rebuilding trust is challenging, and whether we can fix our relationship remains uncertain. For now, I’m taking it one day at a time, hoping to find a way forward.