Gender Roles in Household Tasks

In today’s society, some tasks remain categorized as “for boys” or “for girls.” Boys often get encouragement to use tools and play sports. In contrast, girls are expected to know how to cook, clean, and do laundry. This traditional mindset faced challenge when Nicole Boulogne, a Michigan mother, posted pictures of her 7-year-old son doing household chores online. Critics questioned her parenting, arguing that such tasks should be reserved for women.

Teaching Independence

Nicole, a single mother of two, believes in raising independent children. Despite managing the household, she prioritizes teaching her kids essential life skills. Her older child already handles basic housework, yard work, and cooking. Nicole plans to instill these skills in her younger child as they grow older.

Challenging Traditional Norms

When asked why she teaches her son these tasks, Nicole shares a powerful perspective. “I teach my kid how to cook and take care of the house because these skills aren’t limited to women. One day, he might be a single man living alone, capable of doing laundry without relying on takeout. He may want to impress a significant other with a homemade meal or help around the house when he has kids and a partner. By teaching him these skills, I prepare him to contribute to society both at home and beyond.”